Girl VS Woman.
Girls want to control the man in their life.
Grown women know that if he’s truly hers, he doesn’t need controlling.
Girls check you for not calling them.
Grown women are too busy to realize you hadn’t.
Girls are afraid to be alone.
Grown women revel in it-using it as a time for personal growth.
Girls ignore the good guys.
Grown women ignore the bad guys.
Girls make you come home.
Grown women make you want to come home.
Girls leave their schedule wide-open and wait for a guy to call and make plans.
Grown women make their own plans and nicely tell the guy to get in where he fits.
Girls worry about not being pretty and/or good enough for their man.
Grown women know that they are pretty and/or good enough for any man.
Girls try to monopolize all their man’s time (i.e., don’t want him hanging with his friends).
Grown women realize that a lil’ bit of space makes the ‘together time’ even more special-and goes to kick it with her own friends.
Girls think a guy crying is weak.
Grown women offer their shoulder and a tissue.
Girls want to be spoiled and ‘tell’ their man so.
Grown women ‘show’ him and make him comfortable enough to reciprocate without fear of losing his ‘manhood’.
Girls get hurt by one man and make all men pay for it.
Grown women know that was just one man.
Girls fall in love and chase aimlessly after the object of their affection, ignoring all ‘signs’.
Grown women know that sometimes the one you love, don’t always love you back-and move on, without bitterness.
Girls will read this and get an attitude.
Grown women will read this and pass it on to other Grown women & their male friends
21 October 2009
24 July 2009
Mimpi seorang gadis lalu bertemu Rasullullah saw
Untuk Renungan Bersama.
Bismillahirrahmanir rahim
Rakaman ini dipetik dari program Motivasi Pagi -TV 3 (6.30 pagi) oleh
Ustazah Noorbayah Mahmood
Seorang gadis datang menemui Rasulullah dengan tangan kanannya
disorokkan kedalam poket bajunya. Dari raut wajahnya, anak gadis ini
sedang menanggung kesakitan yang amat sangat. Lalu Rasulullah
menegurnya.
"Wahai anakku, kenapa wajahmu menampakkan kamu sedang kesakitan dan apa
yang kamu sorokkan di tanganmu?"
Lalu gadis malang ini pun menceritakan hal yang berlaku padanya :-
"Ya,Rasulullah, sesungguhnya aku adalah anak yatim piatu. Malam tadi aku
telah bermimpi dan mimpiku itu telah membuatkan aku menanggung kesakitan
ini." Balas gadis tadi.
"Jika tidak jadi keberatan, ceritakanlah mimpimu itu wahai anakku."
Rasulullah mula tertarik dengan penjelasan gadis tersebut."Aku bermimpi
berjumpa ibuku di dalam neraka.
Keadaannya amat menyedihkan. Ibuku meminta diberikan air kerana dia amat
dahaga kerana kepanasan api neraka itu hingga peluh tidak sempat keluar
kerana kekeringan sekelip mata." Gadis itu berhenti seketika menahan
sebak.
"Kemudian kulihat ditangan kirinya ada seketul keju dan ditangan
kanannya ada sehelai tuala kecil.Beliau mengibas-ngibaskan kedua-dua
benda tersebut untuk menghalang api dari membakar tubuhnya. Lantas aku
bertanya ibuku, kenapa dia menerima balasan sebegitu rupa sedangkan
ketika hidupnya ibuku adalah seorang hamba yang patuh dengan ajaran
islam dan isteri yang taat kepada suaminya?
Lalu ibuku memberitahu bahawa ketika hidupnya dia amat bakhil. Hanya dua
benda itu sahaja iaitu seketul keju dan sehelai tuala kecil pernah
disedekahkan kepada fakir. Yang lainnya hanya untuk bermuka-muka dan
menunjukkan kelebihan hartanya sahaja.
Lalu aku terus mencari ayahku. Rupanya beliau berada di syurga dan
sedang menjamu penghuni syurga dengan makanan yang lazat dan minuman
dari telaga nabi.
Ayahku memang amat terkenal kerana sikapnya yang dermawan dan kuat
beramal. Lalu aku bertanya kepada ayahku. "Wahai ayah, ibu sedang
kehausan dan menaggung azab di neraka.Tidakkah ayah ingin membantu ibu
sedangkan di dunia kulihat ibu amat mentaatimu dan menurut perintah
agama.
Lalu dijawab oleh ayahnya. Sesungguhnya beliau dan semua penghuni syurga
telah dilarang oleh Allah dari memberi walau setitik air kepada
isterinya kerana itu adalah pembalasan untuk kebakhilan yang dilakukan
ketika didunia.
Oleh kerana kasihan melihat azab yang diterima oleh ibuku, aku lantas
menceduk sedikit air mengguna tapak tangan kananku lalu dibawa ke
neraka.
Belum sempat air tersebut mencecah bibir ibuku, api neraka telah
menyambar tanganku sehingga melecur.
Seketika itu juga aku tersedar dan mendapati tapak tanganku melecur
teruk.
Itulah sebabnya aku datang berjumpa engkau ya Rasulullah." Panjang lebar
gadis itu bercerita sambil airmatanya tidak henti-henti mengalir dipipi.
Rasulullah kemudian meletakkan tongkatnya ke tapak tangan gadis tersebut
lalu menadah tangan, berdoa memohon petunjuk dari Allah. Jika sekiranya
mimpi gadis tersebut adalah benar maka disembuhkanlah agar menjadi
iktibar kepada beliau dan semua umat islam.
Lalu berkat kebesaranNya tangan gadis tersebut sembuh.
Rasulullah lantas berkata, "Wahai anakku, pulanglah.
Banyakkan bersedekah dan berzikir dan pahalanya kau berikan kepada
ibumu.Mudah- mudahan segala dosanya terampun. INSYALLAH"
Bismillahirrahmanir rahim
Rakaman ini dipetik dari program Motivasi Pagi -TV 3 (6.30 pagi) oleh
Ustazah Noorbayah Mahmood
Seorang gadis datang menemui Rasulullah dengan tangan kanannya
disorokkan kedalam poket bajunya. Dari raut wajahnya, anak gadis ini
sedang menanggung kesakitan yang amat sangat. Lalu Rasulullah
menegurnya.
"Wahai anakku, kenapa wajahmu menampakkan kamu sedang kesakitan dan apa
yang kamu sorokkan di tanganmu?"
Lalu gadis malang ini pun menceritakan hal yang berlaku padanya :-
"Ya,Rasulullah, sesungguhnya aku adalah anak yatim piatu. Malam tadi aku
telah bermimpi dan mimpiku itu telah membuatkan aku menanggung kesakitan
ini." Balas gadis tadi.
"Jika tidak jadi keberatan, ceritakanlah mimpimu itu wahai anakku."
Rasulullah mula tertarik dengan penjelasan gadis tersebut."Aku bermimpi
berjumpa ibuku di dalam neraka.
Keadaannya amat menyedihkan. Ibuku meminta diberikan air kerana dia amat
dahaga kerana kepanasan api neraka itu hingga peluh tidak sempat keluar
kerana kekeringan sekelip mata." Gadis itu berhenti seketika menahan
sebak.
"Kemudian kulihat ditangan kirinya ada seketul keju dan ditangan
kanannya ada sehelai tuala kecil.Beliau mengibas-ngibaskan kedua-dua
benda tersebut untuk menghalang api dari membakar tubuhnya. Lantas aku
bertanya ibuku, kenapa dia menerima balasan sebegitu rupa sedangkan
ketika hidupnya ibuku adalah seorang hamba yang patuh dengan ajaran
islam dan isteri yang taat kepada suaminya?
Lalu ibuku memberitahu bahawa ketika hidupnya dia amat bakhil. Hanya dua
benda itu sahaja iaitu seketul keju dan sehelai tuala kecil pernah
disedekahkan kepada fakir. Yang lainnya hanya untuk bermuka-muka dan
menunjukkan kelebihan hartanya sahaja.
Lalu aku terus mencari ayahku. Rupanya beliau berada di syurga dan
sedang menjamu penghuni syurga dengan makanan yang lazat dan minuman
dari telaga nabi.
Ayahku memang amat terkenal kerana sikapnya yang dermawan dan kuat
beramal. Lalu aku bertanya kepada ayahku. "Wahai ayah, ibu sedang
kehausan dan menaggung azab di neraka.Tidakkah ayah ingin membantu ibu
sedangkan di dunia kulihat ibu amat mentaatimu dan menurut perintah
agama.
Lalu dijawab oleh ayahnya. Sesungguhnya beliau dan semua penghuni syurga
telah dilarang oleh Allah dari memberi walau setitik air kepada
isterinya kerana itu adalah pembalasan untuk kebakhilan yang dilakukan
ketika didunia.
Oleh kerana kasihan melihat azab yang diterima oleh ibuku, aku lantas
menceduk sedikit air mengguna tapak tangan kananku lalu dibawa ke
neraka.
Belum sempat air tersebut mencecah bibir ibuku, api neraka telah
menyambar tanganku sehingga melecur.
Seketika itu juga aku tersedar dan mendapati tapak tanganku melecur
teruk.
Itulah sebabnya aku datang berjumpa engkau ya Rasulullah." Panjang lebar
gadis itu bercerita sambil airmatanya tidak henti-henti mengalir dipipi.
Rasulullah kemudian meletakkan tongkatnya ke tapak tangan gadis tersebut
lalu menadah tangan, berdoa memohon petunjuk dari Allah. Jika sekiranya
mimpi gadis tersebut adalah benar maka disembuhkanlah agar menjadi
iktibar kepada beliau dan semua umat islam.
Lalu berkat kebesaranNya tangan gadis tersebut sembuh.
Rasulullah lantas berkata, "Wahai anakku, pulanglah.
Banyakkan bersedekah dan berzikir dan pahalanya kau berikan kepada
ibumu.Mudah- mudahan segala dosanya terampun. INSYALLAH"
21 July 2009
ISRA' MIKRAJ
ASSALAMUALAIKUM WBT...basmallah...
semoga pembaca d cucuri rahmat, di murahkan rezeki, di pjgkan umur, di tunjukkan jalan yg benar, di permudahkan di akhirat nanti melintas siratulmustaqim dan neraca al mizan...amin ya rabbal a' lamin..
entry kali ini..title je isra' mikraj..yela,bersempena isra' mikraj baru2 ni..sedar2 dh nak masuk syaaban dan meninggalkan bulan ALLAH,bulan rejab..apalagi,selagi nyawa di kandung badan dan mampu bernafas dn bergerak spt biasa, kerjakan puasa sunat..yg tak sempat,semoga umur masih pjg agar bisa mengerjakan ibadah di lain hari..amin...
ok ok.berbalik ya..hari ini, sy nak kongsi la..nak bagi anda sume juadah atau suapan tatkala megharungi zaman BZ anda,yg x bz tu, buat2 bz, yela..kita sesama islam harus sentiasa ingat mengingati dan pesan memesani..haha.bantai je..mana tak BM spm xdpt score..alamak,KANTOI..
Ketahuilah,semoga ALLAH mberikan taufik kpd kita bhwsanya segala keindahan itu adlh kebesaran TUhan YAng Maha Menciptakannya.Cuba kalian tgk diri anda, byk sungguh keajaiban yg tak ter-list..saraf2 yg terbenam dlm kulit,salur2 darah,etc..tgklah dunia..bumi dn seluruh isinya jika di bandingkan dgn langit adlh bagai lingkaran rantai besi yg di letakkan di tanah lapang. kata saintis, matahari itu 160 kali ganda lebih besar dr bumi malah lebih dr itu.demikian juga sebahagian planet yg beratus2 besar dr bumi ini.Namun anda melihat benda2 bersinar spt matahari,bulan dn bintang yg di kandung oleh langit dan berada padanya.Maka renungkanlah ttg langit yg berisi bbrp ciptaan ALLAH yg bsr2,brpkh besarnya?
kemudian, anda perhatikan mgpa anda dpt melihat matahari,bulan,bintang dn langit2 dgn bola mata yg kecil? kemudian,perhatikanlah kelajuan geraknya..fikirlah alam malaikat dn ciptaan2 ALLAH yg besar2, juga ttg berita yg di bawa oleh Jibril a.s kpd Rasullullah ttg malaikat Israfil a.s Jibril sendiri pernah btya kpd baginda ''bagaimanakan ansa melihat Israfil a.s sedangkan Arasy itu berada di atas pundaknya dan kedua kakinya berada di batas bumi yg paling bawah?''..dan lebih besar dr Israfil tersebut adlh apa yg difirmankan Allah SWT yg bermaksud
''......Kursi ALLAH meliputi langit dan bumi....''' (al baqarah:255)
setiap akal yg mperoleh taufik mahu mengulang-ulang perhatian dn pemikiran thdp keajaiban keindahan ciptaan ALLAH tentu akan semakin bertambah makrifatnya,keyakinannya,ketundukannya,dan pghormatanny.Akan tetapi kita manusia dlm mmrhatikan masalah tersebut berbeza2.Adapun media plg besar utk myampaikan kpd keyakinan yg teguh adlh mbaca AL-QURAN,memahami isinya,memikir ttg ayat2nya dgn penuh ketaqwaan kpd ALLAH scr terus menerus.Itulah pintu mengenal kpd ALLAH SWT dn yakin thdp apa yg ada di sisi-NYA.
kemudian perhatikanlan apa yg kami isyaratkan,kerana tentu anda megerti secara garis besar bhwsnya Rasullullah saw di ISRA MIKRAJkan hingga sampai di 'Sidratul Muntaha'. Baginda melihat tanda2 kebesaran dan kerajaan ALLAH swt dan myatakan adany alam akhirat dn alam dunia.Baginda mdekati Tuhan shgga baginda mjadi dekat sjarak hujung busur panah bahkan lbh dekat lagi. Maka bagaimanakah pdpt anda thdp ilmu Tuhan Yang Maha MUlia, sedangkan Rasullullah snediri berdoa mohon ditambah ilmu sbgmna firman-NYA yg bmaksud;
''.Dan katakanlah : Ya tuhanku, tambahkan lah kepadaku ilmu pengetahuan...''
Semoga ALLAH berkenan mberi ilmu kpd kita semua utk bermakrifat kpd-NYA kembali, dn mudah2an kita dikurniakan cahaya petunjuk-NYA dan mudah2an di anugerahkan pemberian-NYA dilimpahruahkan kpd kita bersama shgga kita tmasuk org2 yg bhak mperoleh pertolongan-NYA.Sesungguhnya ALLAH sendirilah yg mguasai semua itu..amin..
even entry ini sgt amat ter lah pjg..semoga ALLAH beri hidayah agar dibuka hatinya utk membaca nya smpai habis..insyaALLAH...
semoga pembaca d cucuri rahmat, di murahkan rezeki, di pjgkan umur, di tunjukkan jalan yg benar, di permudahkan di akhirat nanti melintas siratulmustaqim dan neraca al mizan...amin ya rabbal a' lamin..
entry kali ini..title je isra' mikraj..yela,bersempena isra' mikraj baru2 ni..sedar2 dh nak masuk syaaban dan meninggalkan bulan ALLAH,bulan rejab..apalagi,selagi nyawa di kandung badan dan mampu bernafas dn bergerak spt biasa, kerjakan puasa sunat..yg tak sempat,semoga umur masih pjg agar bisa mengerjakan ibadah di lain hari..amin...
ok ok.berbalik ya..hari ini, sy nak kongsi la..nak bagi anda sume juadah atau suapan tatkala megharungi zaman BZ anda,yg x bz tu, buat2 bz, yela..kita sesama islam harus sentiasa ingat mengingati dan pesan memesani..haha.bantai je..mana tak BM spm xdpt score..alamak,KANTOI..
Ketahuilah,semoga ALLAH mberikan taufik kpd kita bhwsanya segala keindahan itu adlh kebesaran TUhan YAng Maha Menciptakannya.Cuba kalian tgk diri anda, byk sungguh keajaiban yg tak ter-list..saraf2 yg terbenam dlm kulit,salur2 darah,etc..tgklah dunia..bumi dn seluruh isinya jika di bandingkan dgn langit adlh bagai lingkaran rantai besi yg di letakkan di tanah lapang. kata saintis, matahari itu 160 kali ganda lebih besar dr bumi malah lebih dr itu.demikian juga sebahagian planet yg beratus2 besar dr bumi ini.Namun anda melihat benda2 bersinar spt matahari,bulan dn bintang yg di kandung oleh langit dan berada padanya.Maka renungkanlah ttg langit yg berisi bbrp ciptaan ALLAH yg bsr2,brpkh besarnya?
kemudian, anda perhatikan mgpa anda dpt melihat matahari,bulan,bintang dn langit2 dgn bola mata yg kecil? kemudian,perhatikanlah kelajuan geraknya..fikirlah alam malaikat dn ciptaan2 ALLAH yg besar2, juga ttg berita yg di bawa oleh Jibril a.s kpd Rasullullah ttg malaikat Israfil a.s Jibril sendiri pernah btya kpd baginda ''bagaimanakan ansa melihat Israfil a.s sedangkan Arasy itu berada di atas pundaknya dan kedua kakinya berada di batas bumi yg paling bawah?''..dan lebih besar dr Israfil tersebut adlh apa yg difirmankan Allah SWT yg bermaksud
''......Kursi ALLAH meliputi langit dan bumi....''' (al baqarah:255)
setiap akal yg mperoleh taufik mahu mengulang-ulang perhatian dn pemikiran thdp keajaiban keindahan ciptaan ALLAH tentu akan semakin bertambah makrifatnya,keyakinannya,ketundukannya,dan pghormatanny.Akan tetapi kita manusia dlm mmrhatikan masalah tersebut berbeza2.Adapun media plg besar utk myampaikan kpd keyakinan yg teguh adlh mbaca AL-QURAN,memahami isinya,memikir ttg ayat2nya dgn penuh ketaqwaan kpd ALLAH scr terus menerus.Itulah pintu mengenal kpd ALLAH SWT dn yakin thdp apa yg ada di sisi-NYA.
kemudian perhatikanlan apa yg kami isyaratkan,kerana tentu anda megerti secara garis besar bhwsnya Rasullullah saw di ISRA MIKRAJkan hingga sampai di 'Sidratul Muntaha'. Baginda melihat tanda2 kebesaran dan kerajaan ALLAH swt dan myatakan adany alam akhirat dn alam dunia.Baginda mdekati Tuhan shgga baginda mjadi dekat sjarak hujung busur panah bahkan lbh dekat lagi. Maka bagaimanakah pdpt anda thdp ilmu Tuhan Yang Maha MUlia, sedangkan Rasullullah snediri berdoa mohon ditambah ilmu sbgmna firman-NYA yg bmaksud;
''.Dan katakanlah : Ya tuhanku, tambahkan lah kepadaku ilmu pengetahuan...''
Semoga ALLAH berkenan mberi ilmu kpd kita semua utk bermakrifat kpd-NYA kembali, dn mudah2an kita dikurniakan cahaya petunjuk-NYA dan mudah2an di anugerahkan pemberian-NYA dilimpahruahkan kpd kita bersama shgga kita tmasuk org2 yg bhak mperoleh pertolongan-NYA.Sesungguhnya ALLAH sendirilah yg mguasai semua itu..amin..
even entry ini sgt amat ter lah pjg..semoga ALLAH beri hidayah agar dibuka hatinya utk membaca nya smpai habis..insyaALLAH...
11 June 2009
read this,.....kita harus bersyukur...
This is a poem
written by a teenager with cancer.
She wants to see how many
people get her poem.
It is quite the poem. Please pass it on.
This
poem was written by a terminally ill young girl in a
New York
Hospital
It was sent
by
a medical doctor - Make sure to read what is in the closing statement
AFTER THE POEM.
SLOW DANCE
Have you ever
watched kids
On a merry-go-round?
Or listened to
the rain
Slapping on the ground?
Ever followed a
butterfly's erratic flight?
Or gazed at the sun into the fading
night?
You better slow down.
Don't dance so
fast
Time is short.
The music won't
last
Do you run through each day
On the
fly?
When you ask How are you?
Do you hear the
reply?
When the day is done
Do you lie in your
bed
With the next hundred chores
Running through
your head?
You'd better slow down
Don't dance so
fast
Time is short.
The music won't
last
Ever told your child,
We'll do it
tomorrow?
And in your haste,
Not see his sorrow?
Ever lost touch,
Let a good
friendship die
Cause you never had time
To call and say,'Hi'
You'd better slow down.
Don't dance
so fast.
Time is short.
The music won't
last
When you run so fast to get somewhere
You
miss half the fun of getting there.
When you worry and hurry
through your day,
It is like an unopened gift...
Thrown away.
Life is not a
race
Do take it slower
Hear the
music
Before the song is over.
------------
--------
FORWARDED E-MAILS ARE TRACKED TO OBTAIN THE TOTAL
COUNT.
Dear All: PLEASE pass this mail on to everyone you know -
even to those you don't know! It is the request of a special girl who will soon
leave this world due to cancer.
This young girl has 6 months left to live, and as her dying wish, she wanted to send a letter telling everyone to
live their life to the fullest, since she never will.
She'll
never make it to prom, graduate from high school, or get married and have a
family of her own.
Dr.
Dennis Shields, Professor
Depa rtment of Developmental and Molecular Biology
1300 Morris Park Avenue
Bronx , New York
10461
written by a teenager with cancer.
She wants to see how many
people get her poem.
It is quite the poem. Please pass it on.
This
poem was written by a terminally ill young girl in a
New York
Hospital
It was sent
by
a medical doctor - Make sure to read what is in the closing statement
AFTER THE POEM.
SLOW DANCE
Have you ever
watched kids
On a merry-go-round?
Or listened to
the rain
Slapping on the ground?
Ever followed a
butterfly's erratic flight?
Or gazed at the sun into the fading
night?
You better slow down.
Don't dance so
fast
Time is short.
The music won't
last
Do you run through each day
On the
fly?
When you ask How are you?
Do you hear the
reply?
When the day is done
Do you lie in your
bed
With the next hundred chores
Running through
your head?
You'd better slow down
Don't dance so
fast
Time is short.
The music won't
last
Ever told your child,
We'll do it
tomorrow?
And in your haste,
Not see his sorrow?
Ever lost touch,
Let a good
friendship die
Cause you never had time
To call and say,'Hi'
You'd better slow down.
Don't dance
so fast.
Time is short.
The music won't
last
When you run so fast to get somewhere
You
miss half the fun of getting there.
When you worry and hurry
through your day,
It is like an unopened gift...
Thrown away.
Life is not a
race
Do take it slower
Hear the
music
Before the song is over.
------------
--------
FORWARDED E-MAILS ARE TRACKED TO OBTAIN THE TOTAL
COUNT.
Dear All: PLEASE pass this mail on to everyone you know -
even to those you don't know! It is the request of a special girl who will soon
leave this world due to cancer.
This young girl has 6 months left to live, and as her dying wish, she wanted to send a letter telling everyone to
live their life to the fullest, since she never will.
She'll
never make it to prom, graduate from high school, or get married and have a
family of her own.
Dr.
Dennis Shields, Professor
Depa rtment of Developmental and Molecular Biology
1300 Morris Park Avenue
Bronx , New York
10461
21 May 2009
poor teddy....hoho...its now a pen drive...
post for today....
TA DA!!
got cute stuff here,,,just feel like to collect all those kawaii things...oh!
opps..this wine should be banned from my page....skip it if u r muslim..=)
all the japanese food...i love sushi...just want to eat it
rocket...hmm..how it can be called rocket??...hu..weirdo..
another food...
duckling!!!
uh!!!...kinda scary to have that finger...
turtle...haha...so big..how to put in another device beside it??..
20 May 2009
MY DREAM HOUSE....wat does the relationship between DREAM HOUSE and INTERSHIP???..(as I was just like in hell of bored..so,I post this...)
Salam sejahtera and Assalamualaikum wbt to all...have in mind already wat is ur dream house looks like??...haha...here, I have a lot of suggestion...quite opps..very inspiring..=)
I just LOVE this!!
A planet house ???....as stated in my source...
It seems like the owner LOVE that segi-segi shape..
boat house...
this one..i dun have any idea except for a MUSHROOM..well,,it is a MUSHROOM wif a 'benjol petak' at the upper side..
emm..mothership of UFO...
here u are!! OMG..my lost shoe..
erm...kinda made of besi buruk from outside...isn't it will berkarat???
LOVE this
a house that easily bengkok especially when being blowned by any kind of air..even for our breath...hahaha..
this one,,sure is very creative..upside down house..just wondering,,how do they live in there..FOR MORE INFORMATION>>>>>VISIT HERE<<<<<<
http://www.hemmy.net/2007/02/15/weird-houses-around-the-world/
http://www.ohmyweird.com/2007/02/16/weird-house-on-earth/#more-996
cau cin cau..
27 April 2009
Young King Arthur was ambushed and imprisoned by the monarch of a
neighboring kingdom. The monarch could have killed him but was moved by
Arthur's youth and ideals. So, the monarch offered him his freedom, as long
as he could answer a very difficult question. Arthur would have a year
to figure out the answer and, if after a year, he still had no answer, he
would be put to death.
The question was: What do women really want?
Such a question would perplex even the most knowledgeable man, and to
young Arthur, it seemed an impossible query. But, since it was better than
death, he accepted the monarch's proposition to have an answer by year's end.
He returned to his kingdom and began to poll everyone: the princess, the
priests, the wise men, and even the court jester. He spoke with
everyone, but no one could give him a satisfactory answer.
Many people advised him to consult the old witch, for only she would
have the answer. But the price would be high as the witch was famous
throughout the kingdom for the exorbitant prices she charged.
The last day of the year arrived and Arthur had no choice but to talk to
the witch. She agreed to answer the question, but he would have to agree to
her price first.. The old witch wanted to marry Sir Lancelot, the most noble
of the Knights of the Round Table, and Arthur's closest friend!
Young Arthur was horrified. She was hunchbacked and hideous, had only
one tooth, smelled like sewage, made obscene noises, etc. He had never
encountered such a repugnant creature in all his life.
He refused to force his friend to marry her and endure such a terrible
burden, but Lancelot, learning of the proposal, spoke with Arthur. He
said nothing was too big a sacrifice compared to Arthur's life and the
preservation of the Round Table.
Hence, a wedding was proclaimed and the witch answered Arthur's question
thus: "What a woman really wants," she said, "is to be in charge of her
own life." Everyone in the kingdom instantly knew that the witch had uttered
a great truth and that Arthur's life would be spared.
And so it was, the neighboring monarch granted Arthur his freedom and
Lancelot and the witch had a wonderful wedding.
The honeymoon hour approached and Lancelot, steeling himself for a
horrific experience, entered the bedroom. But, what a sight awaited him. The most
beautiful woman he had ever seen, lay before him on the bed. The
astounded Lancelot asked what had happened.
The beauty replied that since he had been so kind to her when she
appeared as a witch, she would henceforth be her horrible deformed self only half
the time and the beautiful maiden the other half.
"Which would you prefer? she asked him. "Beau tiful during the day ...
or at night?"
Lancelot pondered the predicament. During the day he could have a
beautiful woman to show off to his friends, but at night, in the privacy of his
castle, an old witch! Or, would he prefer having a hideous witch during
the day, but by night a beautiful woman for him to enjoy wondrous, intimate
moments with?
(If you are a man reading this ...) What would YOUR choice be?
(If you are a woman reading this ..) What would YOUR MAN'S choice be?
What Lancelot chose is below. BUT ... make YOUR choice before you
scroll down below. OKAY?
Noble Lancelot, knowing the answer the witch gave Arthur to his
question, said that he would allow HER to make the choice herself.
Upon hearing this, she announced that she would be beautiful all the
time because he had respected her enough to let her be in charge of her own
life.Now ... what is the moral to this story?
The moral is ...
If you don't let a woman have her own way, things are going to get ugly.
Haahhah..wat a ... story...so sweet...;P
neighboring kingdom. The monarch could have killed him but was moved by
Arthur's youth and ideals. So, the monarch offered him his freedom, as long
as he could answer a very difficult question. Arthur would have a year
to figure out the answer and, if after a year, he still had no answer, he
would be put to death.
The question was: What do women really want?
Such a question would perplex even the most knowledgeable man, and to
young Arthur, it seemed an impossible query. But, since it was better than
death, he accepted the monarch's proposition to have an answer by year's end.
He returned to his kingdom and began to poll everyone: the princess, the
priests, the wise men, and even the court jester. He spoke with
everyone, but no one could give him a satisfactory answer.
Many people advised him to consult the old witch, for only she would
have the answer. But the price would be high as the witch was famous
throughout the kingdom for the exorbitant prices she charged.
The last day of the year arrived and Arthur had no choice but to talk to
the witch. She agreed to answer the question, but he would have to agree to
her price first.. The old witch wanted to marry Sir Lancelot, the most noble
of the Knights of the Round Table, and Arthur's closest friend!
Young Arthur was horrified. She was hunchbacked and hideous, had only
one tooth, smelled like sewage, made obscene noises, etc. He had never
encountered such a repugnant creature in all his life.
He refused to force his friend to marry her and endure such a terrible
burden, but Lancelot, learning of the proposal, spoke with Arthur. He
said nothing was too big a sacrifice compared to Arthur's life and the
preservation of the Round Table.
Hence, a wedding was proclaimed and the witch answered Arthur's question
thus: "What a woman really wants," she said, "is to be in charge of her
own life." Everyone in the kingdom instantly knew that the witch had uttered
a great truth and that Arthur's life would be spared.
And so it was, the neighboring monarch granted Arthur his freedom and
Lancelot and the witch had a wonderful wedding.
The honeymoon hour approached and Lancelot, steeling himself for a
horrific experience, entered the bedroom. But, what a sight awaited him. The most
beautiful woman he had ever seen, lay before him on the bed. The
astounded Lancelot asked what had happened.
The beauty replied that since he had been so kind to her when she
appeared as a witch, she would henceforth be her horrible deformed self only half
the time and the beautiful maiden the other half.
"Which would you prefer? she asked him. "Beau tiful during the day ...
or at night?"
Lancelot pondered the predicament. During the day he could have a
beautiful woman to show off to his friends, but at night, in the privacy of his
castle, an old witch! Or, would he prefer having a hideous witch during
the day, but by night a beautiful woman for him to enjoy wondrous, intimate
moments with?
(If you are a man reading this ...) What would YOUR choice be?
(If you are a woman reading this ..) What would YOUR MAN'S choice be?
What Lancelot chose is below. BUT ... make YOUR choice before you
scroll down below. OKAY?
Noble Lancelot, knowing the answer the witch gave Arthur to his
question, said that he would allow HER to make the choice herself.
Upon hearing this, she announced that she would be beautiful all the
time because he had respected her enough to let her be in charge of her own
life.Now ... what is the moral to this story?
The moral is ...
If you don't let a woman have her own way, things are going to get ugly.
Haahhah..wat a ... story...so sweet...;P
26 January 2009
i found this!!!
Penguins can jump 6 feet in the air.
Emus and kangaroos cannot walk backwards.
Beavers can hold their breathe for 45 minutes under water.
The smallest bird in the world is the Humming Bird. It weighs less than 1 oz (or 1g).
A bear can run at speeds of up to 30 miles per hour (48 km/h).
Elephants are the only animal that can't jump.
Polar bears are left handed.
A crocodile cannot stick its tongue out.
A cat has 32 muscles in each ear.
Tigers have striped skin not just striped fur.
Snakes can see through their eyelids.
The praying mantis is the only insect that can turn its head 360 degrees.
Katydids have ears in their front legs.
The strongest animal in the world is the rhinoceros beetle. It can lift 850 times its own weight.
Flamingos are pink because shrimp is one of their main sources of food.
The Chameleon's tongue is as long as its body.
The Chameleon can focus its eyes seperately to watch two objects at once.
BARU TERPERASAN..haha..i didnt know that..
Emus and kangaroos cannot walk backwards.
Beavers can hold their breathe for 45 minutes under water.
The smallest bird in the world is the Humming Bird. It weighs less than 1 oz (or 1g).
A bear can run at speeds of up to 30 miles per hour (48 km/h).
Elephants are the only animal that can't jump.
Polar bears are left handed.
A crocodile cannot stick its tongue out.
A cat has 32 muscles in each ear.
Tigers have striped skin not just striped fur.
Snakes can see through their eyelids.
The praying mantis is the only insect that can turn its head 360 degrees.
Katydids have ears in their front legs.
The strongest animal in the world is the rhinoceros beetle. It can lift 850 times its own weight.
Flamingos are pink because shrimp is one of their main sources of food.
The Chameleon's tongue is as long as its body.
The Chameleon can focus its eyes seperately to watch two objects at once.
BARU TERPERASAN..haha..i didnt know that..
RAMA RAMA DAN WANITA =)
Lihatlah rama-rama, ia cantik. Apabila pandangan kita dihiasi rama-rama, kita menjadi suka dan ceria. Hampir semua orang akan tersenyum melihat rama-rama. Ia mengindahkan alam dan menyempurnakan sekuntum bunga. Seindah mana pun bunga tanpa rama-rama mahu hinggap di situ, tentu ada sesuatu yang tidak kena.
Cubalah tangkap dan pegang rama-rama itu dengan sayapnya. Lihat apa yang melekat di jari anda,warna dan corak rama-rama itu telah berpindah ke jari-jari anda. Kemudian lepaskan kembali, ia terbang tapi lebih terbuai oleh angin. Siapa pun yang akan menangkapnya kembali tidak tertarik padanya lagi. Harganya telah tiada untuk dikagumi, disimpan mahukan diawetkan.
Rama-rama ibarat wanita. Ia indah untuk dipegang tetapi nilainya cepat turun setiap kali ada tangan- tangan yang tidak wajar hinggap pada tubuhnya. Memang fizikalnya tiada apa-apa yang kurang, tapi harga diri dan maruah telah mula tercemar. Begitulah wanita. Ia bagaikan rama-rama yang terbang membawa corak-corak indah, apabila corak-corak itu telah pudar ia tidak dipedulikan lagi. Harga rama-rama terletak pada warna dan coraknya; harga wanita terletak pada apakah tubuhnya masih tulen tatkala dia didampingi oleh suaminya.
Rama-rama terpaksa berjuang untuk memulakan hidupnya. Dia terpaksa membebaskan diri daripada kepompong. Bukan mudah untuk keluar daripada kepompong yang mengikat itu. Sedangkan sepanjang berada di dalam kepompong tiada siapa pedulikannya, malah tatkala bergelar ulat ia lebih dibenci.
Sulitnya untuk akhirnya bergelar rama-rama. Terpaksa melalui kitaran dan evolusi bentuk. Daripada sesuatu yang menjijikan akhirnya bertukar menjadi sesuatu yang amat menyenangkan. Rama-rama adalah contoh terbaik wanita untuk sedar betapa bernilainya kehidupan mereka. Sewaktu anda dipuja, usah terlalu mabuk sebaliknya kenang-kenang kehidupan serba susah sebelum itu. Sewaktu anda digoda, dihambat dan dirayu usah terlalu mudah menyerah sebab ingatlah mereka yang bersusah payah memastikan anda dapat bangkit sebagai manusia sempurna hari ini. Anda tidak muncul sendiri, sebaliknya anda adalah lambang pengorbanan ibu bapa.
Usah jadi rama-rama yang di dalam bingkai gambar, indah dipandang tetapi diri sendiri menanggung beban. Hiduplah dengan bebas dan terjemahkan kebebasan itu kepada nilai-nilai murni yang perlu dipertahankan. Hak anda ialah memelihara kehormatan. Selama mana anda memelihara kehormatan dan maruah diri anda berada pada terbaik, sebaik sahaja anda tidak peduli kepada siapa maruah itu hendak diberikan, anda sudah kehilangan masa depan. postman-butterfly Kalaulah rama-rama tahu dia cantik dan sentiasa memukau penglihatan manusia, dia tentu tidak mudah-mudah terbang ke sana sini. Sebab setiap kali ia mengibarkan sayapnya, ia sentiasa terdedah pada bahaya. Namun rama-rama tidak pernah tahu dia itu indah dan sentiasa menjadi sasaran manusia. Jika anda tidak pernah tahu kewanitaan anda itu adalah sasaran terpenting sang penceroboh, anda ibarat rama-rama yang tidak sedar diintai bahaya.
Mahalkan harga diri anda. Semakin sukar anda dimiliki semakin mahal nilai anda di sisi lelaki. Lelaki perosak hanya inginkan kuasa memiliki tetapi tidak mahu setia apalagi memelihara dan melindungi anda. Usah terperangkap ke dalam tangan yang hanya akan meleraikan warna-warna anda. Setelah warna- warna itu hilang anda dibiarkan. Jadilah wanita angun yang punya nilai dan maruah diri, anda akan lebih dihormati. Nilai anda bukan terletak pada berapa ramai lelaki yang ingin memiliki anda tetapi berapa ramai yang benar-benar sanggup menyintai anda. Cinta itu terjemahan pada kasih sayang dan belaian sayang penuh ikhlas. Selama mana anda belum menemuinya anggaplah diri anda masih berhak terbang bebas bagaikan sang rama-rama.
Jadilah rama-rama yang mengindahkan alam, jadilah wanita yang membanggakan semua orang.
kredit to iluvislam.com
Cubalah tangkap dan pegang rama-rama itu dengan sayapnya. Lihat apa yang melekat di jari anda,warna dan corak rama-rama itu telah berpindah ke jari-jari anda. Kemudian lepaskan kembali, ia terbang tapi lebih terbuai oleh angin. Siapa pun yang akan menangkapnya kembali tidak tertarik padanya lagi. Harganya telah tiada untuk dikagumi, disimpan mahukan diawetkan.
Rama-rama ibarat wanita. Ia indah untuk dipegang tetapi nilainya cepat turun setiap kali ada tangan- tangan yang tidak wajar hinggap pada tubuhnya. Memang fizikalnya tiada apa-apa yang kurang, tapi harga diri dan maruah telah mula tercemar. Begitulah wanita. Ia bagaikan rama-rama yang terbang membawa corak-corak indah, apabila corak-corak itu telah pudar ia tidak dipedulikan lagi. Harga rama-rama terletak pada warna dan coraknya; harga wanita terletak pada apakah tubuhnya masih tulen tatkala dia didampingi oleh suaminya.
Rama-rama terpaksa berjuang untuk memulakan hidupnya. Dia terpaksa membebaskan diri daripada kepompong. Bukan mudah untuk keluar daripada kepompong yang mengikat itu. Sedangkan sepanjang berada di dalam kepompong tiada siapa pedulikannya, malah tatkala bergelar ulat ia lebih dibenci.
Sulitnya untuk akhirnya bergelar rama-rama. Terpaksa melalui kitaran dan evolusi bentuk. Daripada sesuatu yang menjijikan akhirnya bertukar menjadi sesuatu yang amat menyenangkan. Rama-rama adalah contoh terbaik wanita untuk sedar betapa bernilainya kehidupan mereka. Sewaktu anda dipuja, usah terlalu mabuk sebaliknya kenang-kenang kehidupan serba susah sebelum itu. Sewaktu anda digoda, dihambat dan dirayu usah terlalu mudah menyerah sebab ingatlah mereka yang bersusah payah memastikan anda dapat bangkit sebagai manusia sempurna hari ini. Anda tidak muncul sendiri, sebaliknya anda adalah lambang pengorbanan ibu bapa.
Usah jadi rama-rama yang di dalam bingkai gambar, indah dipandang tetapi diri sendiri menanggung beban. Hiduplah dengan bebas dan terjemahkan kebebasan itu kepada nilai-nilai murni yang perlu dipertahankan. Hak anda ialah memelihara kehormatan. Selama mana anda memelihara kehormatan dan maruah diri anda berada pada terbaik, sebaik sahaja anda tidak peduli kepada siapa maruah itu hendak diberikan, anda sudah kehilangan masa depan. postman-butterfly Kalaulah rama-rama tahu dia cantik dan sentiasa memukau penglihatan manusia, dia tentu tidak mudah-mudah terbang ke sana sini. Sebab setiap kali ia mengibarkan sayapnya, ia sentiasa terdedah pada bahaya. Namun rama-rama tidak pernah tahu dia itu indah dan sentiasa menjadi sasaran manusia. Jika anda tidak pernah tahu kewanitaan anda itu adalah sasaran terpenting sang penceroboh, anda ibarat rama-rama yang tidak sedar diintai bahaya.
Mahalkan harga diri anda. Semakin sukar anda dimiliki semakin mahal nilai anda di sisi lelaki. Lelaki perosak hanya inginkan kuasa memiliki tetapi tidak mahu setia apalagi memelihara dan melindungi anda. Usah terperangkap ke dalam tangan yang hanya akan meleraikan warna-warna anda. Setelah warna- warna itu hilang anda dibiarkan. Jadilah wanita angun yang punya nilai dan maruah diri, anda akan lebih dihormati. Nilai anda bukan terletak pada berapa ramai lelaki yang ingin memiliki anda tetapi berapa ramai yang benar-benar sanggup menyintai anda. Cinta itu terjemahan pada kasih sayang dan belaian sayang penuh ikhlas. Selama mana anda belum menemuinya anggaplah diri anda masih berhak terbang bebas bagaikan sang rama-rama.
Jadilah rama-rama yang mengindahkan alam, jadilah wanita yang membanggakan semua orang.
kredit to iluvislam.com
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